For Parents: Calming Yourself During Outbreak
| Learn and Practice | What? | How? |
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| Monitoring | Pay attention to negative thoughts and feelings. | Check in with your mind: do you feel like screaming? crying? |
| Self-care |
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| *Breathing | Find your breath to calm your mind | Relaxed, seated position Breathe in to the count of 4 Breathe out to the count of 7 |
| *Mindfulness | Practice “loving kindness” to reduce worries and anxieties | When relaxed, recite: “May I be happy. May I be well. May I be safe. May I be peaceful and at ease.” Pray within your faith tradition |
| Self-kindness | Replace self-criticism with self-understanding and patience. | “Try again. Everyone has bad days.” |
Jillian Bailey
Human Development and Family Science doctoral student
Other source: Active Parenting First Five Years